But what if it was all random?
What if everything that happens is outside of your control?
Then no one is to blame.
Then you don’t invest energy in blaming yourself or others, and you commit all your energy to moving forward.
But we love to blame people.
And so we end up wasting time.
Things go wrong.
Figure out a technique to stop your brain from automatically looking for someone (or something) to blame.
That way you can move swiftly to how to move forward, without the usual detour on the blame-train.